This is the first time I’m posting something here as a guest blogger and I’m actually a little nervous about the whole thing. But fear is actually something that each and every one of us should try to conquer at a point in time and this is what I’m trying to do now. While I think of a better name to address myself to the readers, I shall remain as Mystery to everybody for the time being.

For a brief introduction of myself, I wrote to Lilian and suggest that I be a guest blogger here once in a while. I’m actually a female Malaysian who is now based overseas for the time being. Being overseas opens up a whole new world to a young Asian woman like me because though there may be somewhat similar experiences here that one can find back home, there are also experiences a woman can never feel except when they are in a foreign country. One of those experiences is the sex culture/industry here.

As a young female adult, I’ve always been curious to find out about the ongoings of a strip club and for the longest time possible, could never fathom how a man can be addicted to attend strip clubs over and over again. So imagine my delight when a friend suggested that we go to a MALE strip club on one of the girls night out. That night really opened up my eyes to a whole new world that I’d never imagine before.

When we enter the club, we found a whole room full of women from all walks of life. Young and old, the women there were united for one thing only - to see men strip all that night. You can actually sense the fervour of excitement mounting as the clock ticks closer to the time of the show. The show started off with a bang and you can literally see women jumping up and down, screaming and shouting, wolf whistling and clapping their hands out of excitement because the men on stage were stripping down to their birthday suits for them to feast their eyes on. For a few hours that night, these women were treated like princesses and queens from good looking men with hunky bodies. A few lucky chosen ladies were escorted to stage to help the men strip and a handful of ladies on the floor were treated to quick lap dances as the men made their way around the tables.

I thoroughly enjoyed the show and had a glimpse of how men felt when they see women stripped for them. As a female myself, I was made to feel special and privileged at the same time whenever the men stripped on stage. Although there is a room full of women, the strippers just have this ability to make you feel that they are putting on the show for you and you only. I guess that is why men in general are addicted to female strip clubs - they were made to feel special whenever a lovely lady stripped and allow the men to feast their eyes on her naked body. There is one difference between a female strip show and a male strip show though. In a female strip show, the women will strip to their birhtday suits and everyone is able to see everything, yes, naked breasts and vulva included. In a male strip show however, we do not get to see their naked penises although they had stripped to their birthday suits. They will use their hands to cover it and the only other part of their anatomy that you can feast your eyes on are their butts.

Before the show ended that night, my girlfriends all persuaded me to get a private lap dance for experience sake. I kept saying no to them but in the end, they took matters to their own hands and booked a private show for me. The private lap dance lasted just a mere 5 minutes but the experience added to my memory vault is one that will last a lifetime. Now, I am a healthy young heterosexual woman who has been involved in healthy relationships with men before. But I never had a boyfriend who is willing to strip for me. To have a man (a Vin Diesel lookalike to boot) strip for me in a private show is a big boost to the self-esteem. Of course, the sweet words coming out of his mouth is another plus point to the whole self-esteem thing. But at the end of the day, one would have to keep reminding themselves that these strippers are just doing their job.

Considering all these, I really would not mind going to the club again to see men strip for me. Anybody care to join?