Women who cannot take charge of their lives

I have seen many grown and even old women who are always in debt. They have this reckless spending habit and normally spent more than they earned. In the distance family, I have one who constantly tries to borrow money from the host of relatives.

If there is any family gathering and she is going, I will try to excuse myself from going. You see, she will not feel shy of asking from us as well. I am a miser and will not look kindly on people asking for cash advance. If you are grown up, you should be able to manage your finance. If you are really in deep shit due to unfortunate circumstances, I wouldn’t mind giving the money. But if it is irresponsible spending, you can go die.