Why do men cheat

 Alright, I didn’t write this nor did I say this.  This comes from a guy’s opinions.  So, read it with a pinch of salt and again, don’t get your panties in a twist.  This is just a different way of thinking.  Here goe….

Women are always asking why men cheat. Well here is the answer. Women always want a man that they can’t have, so they (women) will put it (Pu**y) right in a man’s face until he takes it. Why wouldn’t a man take some that is being thrown at him. It takes strong will power for a man to turn down easy p****. (Honestly most men don’t have that will power) Men don’t have to go out and look to cheat, women throw it at men all the time. How many questions have you read on here about women wanting to be with a man that is in a relationship or married. So women the next time you ask why do men cheat, think about a time when you wanted to do a man in a relationship or married and answer the question yourself. Men cheat because women can’t stand to see another woman happy with a man that she wants. I am not categorizing all men and all women, but it seems to be the situation a lot of the time.

 

20 Responses to Why men cheat? – Some controversial thoughts by a guy

  1. Rebecca says:

    What about the woman who has been cheated on? how is it her fault? Many women would not cheat or go with another woman’s man. I think people underestimate how predatory men can be. I know everyone is trying to look at it from another point of view but quite frankly, even if a woman does try to steal a man, it is up to him to resist. If my boyfriend cheated I would not blame the girl, she owes me no loyalty at the end of the day. He does, pure and simple. Sure I wouln’t like the woman for doing it, but she is not relevant. What is important is that both of you would resist temptation, no matter how fit the temptee was. ANd by the way, it is also hard for women to control themselves. I simply don’t buy the myth that only men find it hard to say no. Basically, it’s easier for them to cheat because society forgives them for it. Women tend to be harder judged. If they were not, you bet women would be cheating more then they do.

  2. adopted1960 says:

    i think if u have ever been in love that would give u the will power

  3. Lt says:

    Disagree. But, thanks for sharing your opinion.

  4. Sara says:

    I totally agree!!!

    Women are the main cause for men cheating. If we didn’t go after them, they wouldn’t be tempted. Its kinda like entrapment most the time… you offer the bait and when they take it… they are busted!

  5. wuxxler says:

    I would have to agree with your generalization, however, not all men cheat, and not all women try to make men cheat, and not all men can’t say no to free sex.

  6. Connie P says:

    I see your point! I wish this world was not all about sex and people sleeping around!

  7. redpeach_mi says:

    that has got the be the worst excuse for cheating that i have ever heard! you don’t think that women hit hit on all the time. like we don’t get 10 inches thrown at us all the time! please. it’s called loyalty. if you are happy with the person you are with, there is no problem. so please stop trying to spread around your crap about how men have no will power and will always take something that is being thrown at them. maybe you are the weaker sex after all.

  8. babygirl says:

    i just have to say that you are very right, a good majority of women are easy because they are evil people. and i respect you for being blunt about the truth.=}

  9. Dave W says:

    I don’t know if I totally agree with your phrasing but I suppose I agree with your premise … somewhat.

    I think men who cheat do so because they (think they) can get away with it.

    The presence of baiting by a woman or absence thereof is a secondary issue.

    I don’t cheat because I do not savor the thought of the consequences of such behavior being discovered.

    I think its mostly a question of respect.

  10. mookie says:

    agree ..women do seem to hate on each other… oh too well…where men seem to go with the flow.. I never did get this aspect of why women catty with each other..flirt with the other gils man on purpose ..im a woman and still dont get it???

  11. loveable says:

    Agree,never thought of it that way,but u right.

  12. trader1867 says:

    well i have never had a lady throw herself at me — i agree there seem to be a number of ladies offering and six months ago would have been a willing participant

    BUT since meeting my lady it is easy to resist any other lady — and no there has been no sex

    so if men want to they can resist

  13. Sassy H says:

    so true, I agree with that and have found myself in that position but becuase my parents braught me up right I know not to go after a married man, or even in a relationship, there are plenty men out there that are just as good as the married ones or taken ones, leave the ones that are married alone and if they have difficult times in there marriage they should be telling there wifes before looking at another women, so to the females and males when you know someone is with someone else just be a friend not a sex friend and find someone else that may simulate that one you want, and thanks for making this one so much better then the rest of the questions on here and you know something else we were all born with a brain and taught how to use it wisely, we know right from wrong so come on, were not stupid people in this world, just remember to use what was given to you from the time you were born!

  14. DorseysWife says:

    I disagree. Men with a high opinion of themselves and of thier relationship won’t cheat. Weak men cheat. men who feel they have to “prove” they are a man cheat. men who can’t feel good for who they are, and need other women to make them feel good cheat. Losers cheat. Men who feel they must conquer women cheat.give it up. It has nothing to do with how many women throw themselves at some man…it has to do with what sort of MAN he is.

  15. Dennis says:

    Damn ain’t that the truth…although there are SOME dudes that are just straight assholes or still faithful to their game, and on occassion do the damn thang. But yea a lot of times women will PURPOSELY homewreck just out of jealousy or vindictiveness all that. Now honestly if the dude was inteligent he’d just ignore the b*tch or just sic your wife on her, the first offense avoided is the best defense taken, but then a lot of dude’s willpower just…sucks. Thankfully I ain’t like that…say what you want but all i need is one….and if i can avoid pussy til i’m 23 then i can gladly stay faithful to my baby, besides she does sh*t that no other woman i’ve messed with has done before….you just don’t lose these kind of women no SIR!

  16. My 1 says:

    Your point view may be correct in certain cases. But that’s not true always. If that’s right then there shudnt be any ‘rape crimes’, as in that case the lady is not offering any thing rather trying to get rid.
    If we talk on the matter seriously, then the men involded in the incidents, you have mentioned are character-less, un-loyal, dis-honest, vulgar etc. Look a respectful, gentle, loyal person will never accept any offer weather free or even with reward ( chance of s** and money as well).

  17. lovebug123 says:

    You are making it sound like men cheat, and it’s women who are to blame. That they go around “throwing it in their faces”. And men are weak and have no will power. That’s a bunch of crap. It’s not about will power, it’s about your morals, and how much respect you have for yourself,and the person you are in the relationship with. Men are not the only ones who cheat, Women do too. People have the choice, they can make excuses, weakness, will power, privates being thrown in their faces, or they can be a stand up person and stay within the boundaries of their relationship.

  18. sweetsxyazn2002 says:

    Interesting viewpoint…

    But I do not agree.
    I believe that there are people out there that do flaunt themselves out there as “bait” b/c they need someone to validate their sexuality & desirablity. I think these folks (men & women) have low self esteem and need some help in the head.
    The ones you are referring to who go after men who are in relationships…are scandalous. Have anyone head of Karma? if you break up a happy home – don’t be crying when someone else comes along and take him away from you….

    I truly believe that people cheat because they are NOT happy in their relationships. P**** and d***s can be thrown in your face but when you realize that what you have at home is WORTH more than a little piece of azz then the TEMPTATION to cheat won’t cross your mind. It is not will-power. Don’t HIDE BEHIND THAT!!! Be a man and take credit for your actions. If you don’t have an ounce of decency then don’t expect too much respect when all hell breaks loose and bite you in the azzzzzzzzzz.

  19. jules says:

    1stly,..thanx for sharing,…
    i dunno abt wat others feels or think,…
    this is solely my opinions,…

    1st not all men will cheat,…
    i have been in to affairs as well,..onli single woman,..
    not ppls wife,…

    i’ve a gf,..we’ve been 2gether for years,..am looking forward to tie the know soon,…i’m a guy,..still human,..still ogles n look at gals,..tat dun mean i am a pervert,..

    sumtimes when i see great looking gals,..i too tend to imagine wat it would be like to be with her all nite long,…
    but i also do reap rewards as to being a gentleman,..
    i’ve my fair shares of woman or gal jus wanting to hooked up for sex,..yet b4 anything i tell them i m attached,…n if they r game,..so am i,..jus hot passionate sex,..i do it not becoz i’m not getting enuff at home,..its jus tat i feel tat its always a new n learning experience to improve 1 self,…u can call me selfish,..u can call me a jerk,..those tat hooked up with me,..we still often go out for drinks n dinner n movies,..its all abt respecting 1s privacy n being opened abt it,…

    n if i were to given a choice i think i will do the same thing again,..with no regrets,…

  20. vonm says:

    It’s true inmy case. My cheating excuse of a husband even related to me something that the skank said about me that he has me on a pedestal, and no matter what he does to her, I would always be his wife and I would do anything to stay his wife. Surprise! I don’t want him him that badly.I tried to leave him, but he begged me to reconsider. If his ass had been a real manto begin with, he would not have taken the bait she threw at him to begin with. Anyway, he’s scared s—less to be without me, so I’ll just tolerate his pathetic ass until I get really tired of him.