I was stumbling around and found this interesting article which probably sums up some of my posts on my personal blog.

I had posted about ‘Men did it for lust and women did it for love’. It refers to sex. And this is what the writer said :

8. We equate sex with love.
We think that if we fuck you hard enough, we’ll knock something loose and you’ll fall in love. This is why we have sex with you first and expect a commitment later. This never works, yet we will lie and tell you that we’re only interested in having fun. We don’t want to have fun; we want a boyfriend.

The other thing is the PMS monster. Read this :

10. We are evil.
We are evil for three days before our periods. PMS is a legitimate condition and now that a drug for PMDD is available, we all have that too. Some of us cry as a result of PMS, sometimes we need to talk about our relationship and why you won’t just commit, while we’re crying, of course. We feel fat during this time and we hate you. Your job is easy: Just try not to piss us off more. We sincerely believe that you enjoy seeing us in pain.

And one more that I fully agree :

2. We like to Google you, but never mention our discoveries.
It gets worse: we will then ask leading questions that pertain to what we found as a way to tease out some dark, dirty secret. You see, we respect your privacy, which is why we would never come clean and tell you that we know about the time you tried out for Who Wants to Be a Millionaire. We want you to tell us because honesty is important.

Have fun reading the rest on Men Fitness

I know there is one p0rn channel where people can upload embarrassing video of their spouse caught in the act with their mistress or whatever. I stumbled upon it when the case of the minister and his personal friend exploded. And I already thought that is one wicked thing to do, and yet, it must be so satisfying.

Now, they have taken Youtube as a weapon in the event a couple seeks divorce. The scorned wife will reveal and tell all on Youtube all the dirty, little secrets. It is like airing dirty laundry on Youtube divorce.

In a tearful and furious YouTube video with close to 150,000 hits to date, former actress and playwright (”Bonkers”) Tricia Walsh-Smith lashes out against her husband, Philip Smith, president of the Shubert Organization, the largest theater owner on Broadway.

She goes through their wedding album on camera, describing family members as “bad” or “evil” or “nasty,” and talks about how her husband is allegedly trying to evict her from their luxury apartment. She also makes embarrassing claims regarding their intimate life, and then calls his office on camera to repeat those claims to a stunned assistant.

Famed divorce attorney Raoul Felder, called for comment on the video, termed the whole thing “funny, but there’s also sadness. This is a victim who is holding her head up. I think she comes off well.”

(The Associated Press through Google news)

So, ladies, you know what to do in the event you get ditched. Don’t tear all his clothes or burnt his prized toy collections. Just Youtube all the dirty secrets. He may not be able to find a job anymore. Nyek nyek nyek.

I saw the news on Google news about this nurse Melanie McGuire who killed her husband and hear this….cut him into pieces, stuff it into a suitcase and disposed it. That happened in 2004.

But, as with so many couples, the relationship did not withstand the test of time. By the birth of their second son, the couple had grown even further apart. One reason, according to Melanie, were Bill’s frequent trips to Atlantic City. She says her husband had a gambling problem.

Looks like a pretty basic problem in a marriage but this is no ordinary woman, eh?

Then, they got Melanie McGuire to make a video diaries call 48 hours where she shared her inner most thoughts. You can watch an excerpt of Melanie McGuire from CBS where I found this news.

It is an intriguing story and you should catch it. Here’s another very basic stuffs that happen to us husband and wife…

They never moved into their new home. On the night of April 28, 2004, back in their apartment after the closing, Melanie says they got into the fight that finally convinced her to leave Bill.

Believe it or not, Melanie says it was all over a simple dryer sheet. “He hated them. And I always left them in the pile of laundry,” she says. “And from there the fight progresses to me getting slammed up against the doorway and getting the dyer sheet shoved in my mouth and slapped across the face.”

So, men…..how well do you know your wife? Is she a Melanie McGuire wannabe? Are you sure you are safe? Ever think of getting some insurance to protect yourself or even child insurance if you are married with children? This does give us the wakeup call that we shouldn’t mess with other feelings too much until they reach boiling point, isn’t it? In fact, Melanie McGuire is the first woman whom had brutally snuffed out the life of her loved ones like her own husband or own child.

Scary…..

I just picked up a news on Google that fighting with the spouse is good because it allows you to

Preliminary results from a University of Michigan study found couples that suppress anger die earlier than couples in which one or both partners express their anger and resolve the conflict.

So, just let it out the next time your spouse bothers you, eh? Learn to be the drama queen, pouts with style, cry with pizazz and make life difficult for him sometimes. Say what you want to say, scream what you feel or you will get old and die faster. Hahaha, after all the drama check into one of those Vegas hotels and make love to pay back.

I was chatting with a girlfriend the other day about recovery from a cheating spouse. We were both talking about the hot issue of infidelity and both of us being married, we do have a lot of concerns. I mean, which married women aren’t affected with the hottest news of the elderly politician caught on video in a sex act with his ‘personal friend’ who is only half his age? Infidelity Support is probably the only way for the cheated wife to cope because if she starts hearing from every other sides, she will go cuckoo. In my opinion, the best is to just talk to other women who have walked that path instead of people who haven’t. Otherwise, they will complicate issues even more.

Life is much more complicated now than previously. Both men and women have much more freedom and with that, chances of them having a fling outside is easier. So, let’s say you are a single girl and wish to find a date. How sure are you that the guy is still single and available? Date Screening will probably help you to weed out some of the unsuitable guys. You certainly do not wish to be hooked up with a married guy, right?

Tell you what. I have surfed over to the WomanSavers dot com site and they have some pretty interesting stuffs there. For example, how do you know if your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? They provide the tell-tale signs over there. Go on and read up. You may also want to take the Relationship Polls and find out some things that you probably are not aware of.

The other day, I stumbled upon the history of how people start online dating. Do you know that back in the 1950s, people were already into this? Of course, back then, they probably started with penpal which I believe is a foreign word to most people in their 20s and maybe early 30s. Long before the existence of the internet, people get to know each other through regular snail mail.

I remembered well back then, they have these sections in magazines and newspapers of eligible singles looking for friends. Back then, things were much more innocent and they would put their real address and they were not worried of getting raped. LOL. By mentioning back then, I am talking about the 60s and early 70s when my older siblings were into such magazines.

Online Dating is now the norm and you can practically find all sorts of methods where single folks put up their ‘advertisement’. Now, they have video, audio and even live video for singles searching for partners. And if you need some online dating tips on how to deal with the first online date or what to put down in your profile, you can file all these help online too. Now, is there any excuse NOT to find a partner?

Go get your online tips from http://www.onlinedatingtips.org/, who brought this post to you.

I think not many women can safely says they know their worth. I have seen so many who short-changed themselves by sticking to unworthy men. They feel they are not worth it. They settle for the second best. They do not know when to call it quits. They keep on putting their esteem to be trodden by these bastards and they call it love.

Sometimes, I think these women have been brought up with a lack of self-worth injected into them. They didn’t learn about saying no to being second fiddle. They will suffer silently for the sake of their exterior image, caring very little for their inner feelings.

To them, I hope they will one day wake up and find the strength to do what they really want to do. Sometimes, God plays a part here and if they have searched hard enough, I am sure God will give them the little nudge to go in the right direction. That’s why it is so important to instil in our daughters especially, that they must love themselves, value themselves or no one else will.

Don’t be the needy woman.